Operation White Panther

[Patagonie]

translation:
girlfriends are expensive in terms of time and money and they tend to dominate yur thinking cuz they control your sex life

sometimes you're better off looking for simpler alternatives
also not a good idea to "look for things you need" in other people
you may get disappointed
why do you need "these things" in the first place?
because of what you're missing in your life? 

the problem for romantics, the romance always runs out sooner or later
then what?

it's best to seek an emotional state of Equilibrium of needing nothing
to live that way, only requires the expenditure of minimal effort
vrs the Romance Construction company you're building
I can imagine yur disappointment, if what ya build doesn't "work out"

who do you serve, when you serve your own desires?
is it REALLY YOU that you serve...
eh Monsier Rousseau?

I am an esthete which leads to radical re-thinking or resentiment
sometimes the most radical stand we can take - is against our own impulses, that we have grown addicted to
that we do without question, because it is 'part of our nature' so we don't ever question it

you should

a starving man can plan for the gourmet meal of a lifetime, but he's probably gonna have to settle for McDonald Trump's Orange Cheesy Burgers made in the USA, tarriff free

Acoustics
so what you are trying to do is to become a "tuning fork" and when you vibrate, get yur partner to vibrate with you...n'es pas?
and that's why you're putting all the energy into vibrating

a man of action and not words

still...
for 500 euros, I could have a 9+ Ukrainian super model for whatever time period I wanted and she would be more tender and kind to me than yur average american girlfriend on valentine's day
do this once a month, and you won't waste ANY time lookin at porn, cuz you is happy and it's WAY, WAY cheaper than a girlfriend
and NONE of the emotional and mental headache

   
Thank you for the clarification   
   
I do agree on this one"for 500 euros, I could have a 9+ Ukrainian super model for whatever time period I wanted and she would be more tender and kind to me than yur average american girlfriend on valentine's day
do this once a month, and you won't waste ANY time lookin at porn, cuz you is happy and it's WAY, WAY cheaper than a girlfriend and NONE of the emotional and mental headache"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               This is an answer that every man has had in mind one day or another in this creepy "modern" world when grown because we are rational.

[Patagonie]

For those who are relying too much on money, as attracting bet or as thinking that providing is guarantee of love I would tell two stories. 
 
I had a colleague, she was very pretty, and we were both very attracted. Thank God, don't know why, but I have never crossed the line. Because 60% of chances that I would be dead now (or more).
Her husband was providing as much he could, house, changing her car every year or two years. But in the last four years before he killed himself the economical crisis stroke him. His salary dropped and he met some periods of unemployment.
So he basically got mad and put high pressure  on her wife who didn't leave. 6 months prior to his death he bought a gun and prepared everything. As her wife told, daughter and I, we have been lucky to survive, He didn't touch us.
Would have been the extra lover, I would have been the first to be shot. SURE. 
   
I know someone in the surroundings who is on the top 2% earners in my country. He firmly believes that without money you cannot meet pretty women. So of course he believes that he is entitled to such women. He gave to the women the red carpet treatment. Gifts, expansive restaurants, and so on. But his emotional life I know tells us a different story. Last woman who spent one year with him revealed at the end that she was not in love with him, he was furious. Translation she liked the good life style but not really the man.The previous woman never introduced him to his children and after few years he understood that the fire in her was still burning for her ex husband who was the EXACT opposite of what he was : broken, other skin color, under the law and so on.
What a slap in the face.   
     
So compensating internal insecurities by splashing  money over women is a dysfunctional way to obtain or maintain a relationship, and that could come with very bad ending. 

[krimster2]

the best laid plans, often "go astray"...in fact, almost always do...
nothing lasts forever
the only constant is change

the wise thing is to understand the difference between what you want and what you have access to and are capable of 'getting'
and to narrow the difference between these two as much as you can

when you think this way, you see there are simpler approaches to 'courting' receptive females
allowing you to find a shorter path with greater probabilities

cherchez les femmes?
is always the first question

you find out where they are
and what it takes to open the door to get inside with them
and you DO IT

instead of custom romance experience building
somebody like you could have his own fiefdom in Ukraine with his anti-drone combat R/C plane with a 2 meter wingspan, gas or turbine powered
you could freakin wear goggles and a silk scarf with your r/c control system and fight Iranian drones  trying to land on Ukrainian play grounds
Lafayette!!!  we are here!!!!

you give up this and all other possibilities by following the one you're on



phuque putin and the war
phuque all tyrants AND the horse they rode in on

resistance is NOT futile

if I were younger I'd freakin love to be fightin Putin in Ukraine
putting my thumb on the scale of victory for the ukrainian people

now they will be sold out to Trump for thirty tons of rare earth
Ukraine's history is ALWAYS about it being stolen from the people by tyrants
our ancestors ALWAYS fought back when this happened
this time is no different
every generation will know it's sorroow

[2tallbill]

     
So compensating internal insecurities by splashing  money over women is a dysfunctional way to obtain or maintain a relationship, and that could come with very bad ending.

"Don't be surprised if you attract Gold Diggers if you use money for bait!"

Quote stolen blatantly from Leslied the same guy who wrote the RWD 10 commandments

[krimster2]

no matter how ya slice it, women COST A LOT!!!!
and since most of ya are ghetto blaster poor boys...
it means yur poor AND LOVELORN AND as HORNY as a two-peckered Billy Goat

being poor and with no prospect for pooty tang
is cuz yur lazy
and don't wanna go hunt for a meal
and most of ya ain't ANYWHERE near smart enough
to figure out how to get that oyster to open up
and let the juice trickle down yur lips
so ya just look at pictures of dewds eating oysters and pretend it's you


PS
money isn't a bait for the prey to chomp away on
it's the SCENT of money
that acts like a phermone that makes them moan

all pussycats like to be stroked and petted
but only from alphas and not betas
alphas are USUALLY the ones with at least SOME money
so money is virtue signaling

how you use it IS IMPORTANT though
instead of "spending" think of "investing"

for somebody like Trench, I'd recommend drawing a venn diagram of his GF and himself
and see where they overlap
and look for a way the two of them could start 'a home business' together

but that would take ole Trench a lot of effort
and there's a Red Dwarf re-run on BSkyB

[Patagonie]

"Don't be surprised if you attract Gold Diggers if you use money for bait!"

Quote stolen blatantly from Leslied the same guy who wrote the RWD 10 commandments

   
Yep I do remember Leslie first time he came in FSU.
He wanted to book a car with a driver. The interpreter told him, "do you want to retrieve all the gold diggers of the city?That what happened.  Of course he never hired a driver.
   
I remember my very first time in Ukraine. I was with a girl I had a cruch and all of sudden she told me "your coat it's a Cavalli?"And I had no other solution to say yes. I knew that I couldn't say, Yes I made a deal, I bought it 35% of his real price.
Then in the next travels I stopped to wear expansive branded clothes. 
Among my wardrobe I had branded clothes because I knew how to make shopping but I was not the rich guy who owned for $30000 of suits for example. 

All time I wrote here, newbies never mention to the ladies any figures of your income, size of your home, don't show photos, photos of your big house, your expansive cars. Just tell them you make enough to have a family and kids and you have a decent life.
Avoid expansive stupid watches, rings, suits and so on. Especially in FSU.Focus on the chemistry you have with the woman, how does she deal with others people, what does she do for you and so on. Learn the signs of interest a woman displays.

Whatever your wealth is (and especially if you rich), if you are searching a real and healthy long term relationship, you should do everything possible to hide ANYTHING related to your fortune, so money at the end is NEVER an incentive for the woman to have a relationship with you.
There are some other good reasons to do this, it's not only because girls are around your money, it's also because they are shallow, they want you as a substitute for their lack of success or flaws with their self esteem, they are shamed of themselves facing their parents, they want to stand out around their female friends, they are lazy, they are not autonomous, if they dislike sex with you they will stay because of your money before a smoking divorce or false accusation ... And the list goes on. All kind of characters you ideally want to avoid.
   
Around people I know a couple recently divorced. I know the woman for 35 years. He is a successful businessman and was in love with her.   
e didn't realize that she was an histrionic (see the DSM 5, classification of the US mental troubles).   
Basically she only lives to be the center of the world, surrounded as much as possible with expansive gifts, hotels, cars and so on. Which he provided. She is totally superficial and worked in the flagrance industry.She forced him to marry. He had a devastating cancer and survived. 
He finally understood that the main reason she was around him was the money. He asked for the divorce one year after the marriage.
   
He gave her the flavor of the money and retrieved the bottom of the barrel. Worse, he fueled her dysfunctional ego not for redemption but for more troubles. 
But yes he had some swing in a nice pussy for years. Which benefits?

[krimster2]

you are right mon ami!!
money is best configured to be yur 'invisible benefactor' and not visible one
a powerful, invisible friend is ALWAYS the best kind
don't lead with yur portfolio and you will leave the hungry sharks behind...

i've been able to see much of the world, and my observation is this....
THE WORLD IS FILLED WITH LONELY DEPRESSED WOMEN!!!!!!
such a strange coincidence, NO?

So there you are at Point A, and there they are at Point B
how do you draw a line between A & B?
most of ya can't figure it out - soooo PORN TIME!!!!! THE END!!!

what ya don't relaize is...that if you rescue some poor woman in Ukraine
you are actually "saving yurself'

what wimmin are REALLY LOOKING for when they're gold diggers
is their DUMB WAY to find a man will care about them, and take care of them and they end up corrupting this into manipulation
everyone searches for what's rare and precious in their life
gold, or a father figure they nevver had
in my case, it was tall, naked Ukrainian farm girls
good lord...if you've never seen a TALL YOUNG ukrainian farm girl with big naturals AND "abs" and just absolutely "BUFF"
becuz of all the hard physical labor they do
becuz they sometimes walk miles to go shopping
you can flip a quarter off their butt, it's "so tight"

and this my friend is YOURS for the TAKING....
how do I KNOW?
cuz I TOOK ONE!!!

if you are GIVING to a woman
she will not have to try and take from you
you must take the lead and decide what material things you will give
but also the immaterial, which is even more important

a stable comfortable home to belong to
a trusted friend
a protector
a trusted source of knowledge and advice

a safe harbor in an increasingly hostile world is what women are ALREADY looking for

smart dewds KNOW how to be nurturing to a woman without being exploited
and will have women 'friends' literally eating out of their hand

later, you just change sausages....
you think they're NOT gonna chomp down on that?
I guarantee you that THEY WILL
and will do so with GREAT enthusiasm, like they're freakin starving

you live yur life making friends and influencing people
and extract benefits from yur friendships
very easy and direct to do this with women 35+ in Ukraine, becuz they are thinking the same thing you are
Ukraine has a lot of "buff" 35+ yr old Elizabeth Hurlry types
can you imagine drying off Elizabeth Hurley when she steps out of the shower?
it would take me awhile, I might have to do it several times to make sure I got off the last drop

life is short...
try living some 'afore ye die
is my sugeestion to all you INCELS out there

embrace the world, instead of rejecting it, cuz the world rejected you becuz you're Beta

Chic Alors! Commander Che Krimster Los Americanos Worker's Revolutionary Party and designer of custom authentic period Doll Furniture  AKA "Tricky Robotniki"

but this sentiment is all "pre-apocalypse"

the apocalypse ain't far off, and when that happens. EVERYTHING will be different

then ALL WOMEN will give ya sex for protection and food, but unfortunately most of ya will be dead so you won't be participating in that new market scheme



PS
the advantage of living near the Gulf of Mexico...
if the airports are shutdown, I can be on a small boat bound for Costa Rica in 24 hours and make it there in a few days and not even show my passport when I land
the Ge-Stop-O has no clue where I am so they can't Ge-Stop me
take that you silly freakin obengropenfuhrer

[olgac]

well I think all this talk about flashingmoney is a little disingenious from men looking for a wife in a poorer country.
Even if You are not wearing expensive brands or buying expensive presents, her improving her living conditions
is for sure always part of the equation in such marriages! Your passport is in fact even more important then the money
like I made myself a lot of of mooney once I had a legal status in US. This is why there is such a high percentage of divorces western men marrying FSUW: flashing an EU or US passport is always partof the equation.

I think it's even true when living in Thailand with an EU passport.

I knew only one Belorussian woman who married a Phillipino guy who was very rich and moved there for him. It ended badly there was physical abuse from him, and she had no rights, he had all the connections. he took away the son, the womens shelter was like a jail, she became illegal in the country, etc. This was 20 years ago and I lost track.

I guess like Bill said before You have to assess very carefully if she is highly attracted to You as a man and not only to what lifestyle You can provide.I think there are signs in the beginning. I don't know them I will let Bill speak.

[krimster2]

in Russia, i've seen PLENTY of SOCIAL REJECTS skip any form of subtlety and try these "money flexing" ploys for "pickups", usually with an expensive car
i've watched these guys "flex"
I watched them get LOTS of rejection...but eventually, they talk some poor girl flattered by their attention to go and get drunk with them and have back seat car sex
in Russia, they ALWAYS SUCCEED if they are persistent enough and can handle the rejection until they find a female social reject even below their level
who acts like she'll be glad to give ya sex, just so she can stay warm for the night

Russia is freakin AMAZING
intelligentsiya malchicky can easily use their 'uniqueness'  with educated Russian women
they will eat you up like you were a slab of salo
you play a guitar, piano, sing, they will fall at your feet
you draw, paint, make stuff, same deal

you live in a prosperous country NOT invaded by Russia
you can sporsor the 'right kind of woman'
and whaever investment you make in her
will be returned to you...at least TEN FOLD...maybe even ONE HUNDRED FOLD
how do I KNOW???
how do ya think?

the best flex...
divide the opposite sex into two groups
those you'd 'schlep' and those you wouldn't
to those you would schlep
you give a warm and sincere smile and extend the hand of frienship

if you signal all the right virtues...including money....
Russian wimmin will let you get close to them

if you speak Russian, you can "sweet talk" them and YOU be de one doin the manipulatin home boy
these cold Russian women all have a raging horniness
and a foreign man, putting "counter rotation" on a Russian woman's "sugar plum"
is how you keep them obediant and servile
what you do see, is when yur "doin it" you make a "certain facial expression'
and if a Russian woman gives ya 'any problems' you make this EXACT same facial expression
and THAT'S IT!!!! SHE'S SORRY!!!!!won't do it again, I promise!!!!!

what Americans need to realize, once a Russian woman gives you access to her sugar plumb, she submits to you COMPLETELY!!!!!

[Patagonie]

well I think all this talk about flashingmoney is a little disingenious from men looking for a wife in a poorer country.
Even if You are not wearing expensive brands or buying expensive presents, her improving her living conditions
is for sure always part of the equation in such marriages! Your passport is in fact even more important then the money
like I made myself a lot of of mooney once I had a legal status in US. This is why there is such a high percentage of divorces western men marrying FSUW: flashing an EU or US passport is always partof the equation.

I think it's even true when living in Thailand with an EU passport.
   
I knew only one Belorussian woman who married a Phillipino guy who was very rich and moved there for him. It ended badly there was physical abuse from him, and she had no rights, he had all the connections. he took away the son, the womens shelter was like a jail, she became illegal in the country, etc. This was 20 years ago and I lost track.
   
I guess like Bill said before You have to assess very carefully if she is highly attracted to You as a man and not only to what lifestyle You can provide.I think there are signs in the beginning. I don't know them I will let Bill speak.

   
     
You are perfectly right, a woman coming in the West will have a lot of advantages, and she does it also for her child(s), future or present child.This is why, ADDITIONALLY, one reason more, to not brag about anything.
She already knows that her living conditions will improve, most of the time. And the opportunities will multiply tenfold.
Many time FSU women come to the conclusion that they is no future in their country. I started to get it from 2009.     
Of course this is especially the case for the Thaî women with the expats. Expats are the top to retrieve. White men.
     
About me, the question is accurate : is she highly attracted to me? The answer, to be frank, is so so for the moment. But we don't have a relationship for the moment. I have explained thousands of time here that don't have one until you have bedded her. That's often a turning point for a serious relationship.
   
But the explanation is not about my money. And the reason is that I told her the exact truth about my situation. So asking on internet she could retrieve how much I earn in one minute.And recently, because I sent her several document, the exact amount of revenue and taxes I pay, and salary I make were all cleary displayed. Just read it and in few seconds you know it.
To give an idea her ex husband is paying for his kids. Just the school and the flight ticket are costing more than everything I ear per year. 
     
So yes my lifestyle is clearly a reason why she choose me. But she has just left two weeks with the kids in a quite Asian expansive country and clearly she didn't need my money to do so.
It seems to be that her divorce is now unblocking some real revenue now. And for what I am understanding her ex husband is rich, no doubt. Probably a stable millionaire for the last ten years. 
     
To fix all this mess that I am suffering especially in the remote communication department (she is more than sweet during the time being spent together), a third rendezvous is needed. It will define entirely the birth or the death of the relationship.

[Patagonie]

in Russia, i've seen PLENTY of SOCIAL REJECTS skip any form of subtlety and try these "money flexing" ploys for "pickups", usually with an expensive car
i've watched these guys "flex"
I watched them get LOTS of rejection...but eventually, they talk some poor girl flattered by their attention to go and get drunk with them and have back seat car sex
in Russia, they ALWAYS SUCCEED if they are persistent enough and can handle the rejection until they find a female social reject even below their level
who acts like she'll be glad to give ya sex, just so she can stay warm for the night

Russia is freakin AMAZING
intelligentsiya malchicky can easily use their 'uniqueness'  with educated Russian women
they will eat you up like you were a slab of salo
you play a guitar, piano, sing, they will fall at your feet
you draw, paint, make stuff, same deal

you live in a prosperous country NOT invaded by Russia
you can sporsor the 'right kind of woman'
and whaever investment you make in her
will be returned to you...at least TEN FOLD...maybe even ONE HUNDRED FOLD
how do I KNOW???
how do ya think?

the best flex...
divide the opposite sex into two groups
those you'd 'schlep' and those you wouldn't
to those you would schlep
you give a warm and sincere smile and extend the hand of frienship

if you signal all the right virtues...including money....
Russian wimmin will let you get close to them

if you speak Russian, you can "sweet talk" them and YOU be de one doin the manipulatin home boy
these cold Russian women all have a raging horniness
and a foreign man, putting "counter rotation" on a Russian woman's "sugar plum"
is how you keep them obediant and servile
what you do see, is when yur "doin it" you make a "certain facial expression'
and if a Russian woman gives ya 'any problems' you make this EXACT same facial expression
and THAT'S IT!!!! SHE'S SORRY!!!!!won't do it again, I promise!!!!!

what Americans need to realize, once a Russian woman gives you access to her sugar plumb, she submits to you COMPLETELY!!!!!

 
Interesting.     
During the meeting time, I have the frame, the control, she acts like a normal FSU woman respecting her man. I am the alpha no doubt.   
The story is quite different when using messages. 

[krimster2]

russians have all the grace and charm of a gulag guard
don't get upset if they don't ask "how your day is going"
it wouldn't be normal...

if my wife sent me a kind sweet message, I'd immediately think she's being held prisoner and I turn on the phone tracker, and call my "crew" to go get her
and if it's Russians I will phuque them up, I'm not allowed to touch Americans here, same deal in Israel and Costa Rica
in Costa Rica, one of my Romanian BitCoin Scammer antagonists was swimming one day and unfortunately drowned....
this is HOW I prefer to get "things done"
never homocide
either an accident or suicide
and hide behind my facade


you have to look at life from her perspective
she's a middle-aged woman
with enough income to survive on her own
why does she want to change the life she has now - to whatever you're proposing?
the fact you are still SO uncertain about this, is NOT a good sign
she hasn't decided on anything other than to visit you

this is why I prefer to deal with "village girls" much less baggage to deal with
but ya gotta feed and take care of them
you may have to put $25,000 to $50,000 just to fix a Russian woman's teeth in the USA
then after you teach them to drive, buy them a new car, and after they wreck it, buy them another...there's another $100,000

OTOH,
if you were living in Western Ukraine
it'd be simple to get female Ukrainian room mates
to be friends with benefits
like SUPER EASY

middle-aged Ukrainian men all get sucked into the war just like the young guys
economy is phuqued
never been a BETTER time for prospecting in Ukraine

forget messaging, texting, email
boots on the ground
eye to eye
time it takes you to drive to Paris you could fly to Lvov

if I were you, I'd go fly 2 meter wingspan Mirage model interceptors against Iranian Shaheds over Ukrainian school grounds
and be "The Ace of Hearts"
print up playing cards with you in goggles and silk scarf and hand up out as Chez Souvineer du Ukriania
pooty tang gods would make it rain on you

[Patagonie]

russians have all the grace and charm of a gulag guard
don't get upset if they don't ask "how your day is going"
it wouldn't be normal...
if my wife sent me a kind sweet message, I'd immediately think she's being held prisoner and I turn on the phone tracker, and call my "crew" to go get her
and if it's Russians I will phuque them up, I'm not allowed to touch Americans here, same deal in Israel and Costa Rica
in Costa Rica, one of my Romanian BitCoin Scammer antagonists was swimming one day and unfortunately drowned....
this is HOW I prefer to get "things done"
never homocide
either an accident or suicide
and hide behind my facade

     
Thank you Krim,
I would say so true.
Don't know if Russian women are less sweet than Ukrainians, don't have enough experience to compare.
     
   
"if my wife sent me a kind sweet message, I'd immediately think she's being held prisoner and I turn on the phone tracker, and call my "crew" to go get her"
 

[Patagonie]

I was speaking with one of my Russian teacher about this story and her behavior.
     
She came along two points: 
first women play HTG. HTG means hard to get. Don't need to explain more that. 
Second point: her divorce. 
 
Krim brings back a third point
And I would drop another one: their ability to NOT really believe in it until it's really done. 
   
So we come back again and again to the same target: the third meeting in my country to close the deal. 

[Patagonie]

She came back from the country she has visited 10 days with her kids.         
Another stuff I didn't like happened before she left. I was telling her "I will call you tomorrow", cocky and funny.
And that was funny for her, she wrote it.
   
But the day after I called her and couldn't reach her. Not a problem.
I let another day to go and redid it 3 days after. No answer, nothing weird considering that she could work or be with her kids.
Half hour after I received a message telling me "I am abroad in vacation with the kids and will be back
to Thailand the 18th".
   
It broke something in me. Happy for her if she can travel, respect the fact that she don't want to involve the kids because we don't have a relationship (real) in fact. And for obvious divorce reasons that would be probably a bad situation if her ex husband is aware that she has a lover around as the separation is very fresh.
 
But I hated the way she treated me, It seems to me that you can say "Pat I will not available tomorrow, I am flying ... in vacation, but I will call you when I will be back".
Don't know how to call it, politeness, respect, attention, empathy.
This the third time she warns me (three travels) after she has moved out.
     
This time it broke something in me. (that's not an isolated element, that an addition of events of the last three months).
     
During the party I organized few days ago a woman showed her interest.
We should meet in 10 days.   
I am ready for everything and for anything.
   
I suppose that we have some women coming here, most of them simply bystanders. I would like to warn them. If a man gives you a lot of attention and is doing a lot for you, that everything he says matches what he is and what he is doing, if he is a real match. 
Don't consider that he is a little puppy and his focus gained forever. 
If you don't treat correctly a mature and experienced man by not returning his attention. 
Be careful.
I would emphasize on the communication in an international relationship especially. In this type of relationships when people are still not gathered (living together), the relationship depends ENTIRELY of the quality and quantity of communication your are BOTH establishing. 
Any too biggest dis-balance in this communication, yes you maybe feel like a princess but the guy can slide between your fingers and you will not even know it.Many women would think, this man, Pat showed that he was not a long shoot, that he was not gonna to stay serious too long that showed his true nature. Easy, TOO easy.   
If you don't make a man feeling him important, number one (as yourself you don't want to be a number 2), the following could happen: see below.   
                                         
Actually her status has fallen down, she could become a second girlfriend, a mistress, become again number one or I will drop her if something happen with this new woman and I really want to keep this last one. I Could consider that another woman could occupy me and will keep both before I know more after the third appointment.I have no fu..ing idea now.                                                         
 But hé you know, lady of Thailand repeatedly kept me at some distance, hot and cold, mixed signals.  To give you an idea, I consider that her dog is getting more attention than me in absolute.       
So it give you an idea how I am furious inside.                 
I cannot imagine that someone will be eager to defend the dog (and I don't hate dogs), just you cannot put side by side a dog and a human in terms of relationships.                                                                                                                                                                                                                             
   
    So I am absolutely free to do whatever I want, without any culprit, morale or remorse.   
    Krim I am gonna to make this from MY perspective (as you wrote).

[olgac]

I agree with You! People usually start taking those who give a lot for granted.
But in her case it could be that she is just exploring different options and likely those trips are not with kids but with another man

[Patagonie]

I agree with You! People usually start taking those who give a lot for granted.
But in her case it could be that she is just exploring different options and likely those trips are not with kids but with another man

   
Thank you for your post.
   
I have of course put under high scrutiny those trips. 
         
he first one was in Moscow and pretty sure that was about the divorce, with kids. I have no doubt. I felt her really disoriented. 
     
The second was only three days in the North of Thailand. She let the kids at home. 
She told me that a female friend take custody of them. I think that was her ex husband instead because she told me that he's coming back and forth. 
I don't see any reason to tell my about this travel, 3 days are so easy to hide. 
Additionally by studying the photos she sent to me I am pretty sure that she didn't have sex with another man. But this travel is still questionable, for sure. Because I have asked "I am happy for you, I suppose that was a very long time you did something alone and for yourself. How do you feel exploring the world?", no answer. I later repeated this question, no answer. Half of my questions, since the beginning, have been ignored, sometimes, for few, I asked twice.   
         
The third travel, I could hear the kids and see their shadows on a video.
     
The first and third travel fit real kids' vacations.

[krimster2]

d'accord...
and see..meanwhile .someone else has "come to you"
this is the "right way"
just be out swimming in the sea with all the other fish, and try not to be turned into boullibase

women without empathy
I would stay as FAR AWAY from them as you can
because THEY ARE ONLY GOING TO USE YOU AND ABUSE YOU
OTOH, you likely get excited by this kind of woman because they are "SEXUALLY DOMINANT"
and you French are into some major Kink, I'm pretty sure..

You think it's wise, letting a Russian woman you don't know very well to "tie you up" and make you her slave?
well...guess what?  it's NOT A "BON I'DEE" horrosho!!!

so here we are like "ulitsa prostitutka" warning over specific "customers"
watchout for DOMININAT Russian customers, they're BRUTAL
and the more "elitny" the more brutal, you're all replaceable peasants who must serve them
so get to work

[Patagonie]

d'accord...
and see..meanwhile .someone else has "come to you"
this is the "right way"
just be out swimming in the sea with all the other fish, and try not to be turned into boullibase

women without empathy
I would stay as FAR AWAY from them as you can
because THEY ARE ONLY GOING TO USE YOU AND ABUSE YOU
OTOH, you likely get excited by this kind of woman because they are "SEXUALLY DOMINANT"
and you French are into some major Kink, I'm pretty sure..

You think it's wise, letting a Russian woman you don't know very well to "tie you up" and make you her slave?
well...guess what?  it's NOT A "BON I'DEE" horrosho!!!

so here we are like "ulitsa prostitutka" warning over specific "customers"
watchout for DOMININAT Russian customers, they're BRUTAL
and the more "elitny" the more brutal, you're all replaceable peasants who must serve them
so get to work

 
We will see. 
Many good things in this post. 
 
nb: already said this but not dominated by the flesh considering my age (of course you still want sexual compatibility) but more by the project I have in mind for few years. And lady of Thailand was checking this box.

[Patagonie]

I was this morning in a little hiking of three hours and spent time with some people including four women.   
One was looking at me more than needed.   
Finally retrieved her phone number.   
She goes out tonight with a female friend.       
I should join them with a buddy of mine.       
 Determined to go out.   
 

[krimster2]

"already said this but not dominated by the flesh considering my age"
then you are in denial, of course it's about willy gratification, but NOT JUST willy gratification, all kinds of additional gratification
yur brain wants a REWARD...a TREAT...

Mon Ami
change yur life
redo yur house, so you can list it on airbnb and rent it out
while you're doing the same thing living in Lvov or Ternopil
making "Iranian Drone Interceptors"
rents are super cheap in euros right now
drone interceptor building in Ukraine
it could be done in a "cost neutral way"

rent a workshop and loft with space for several "room mates"
then you acquire 30+ year old female roomates with benefits
they can help ya work on the interceptor and keep the place cleanup up
there are few men yur age there, they either left or in the military
all the 35+ year old pooty tang there would belong to you

what more does a man need?
the only problem is if you have high culinary standards (French stereotype)
and have to deal with Russian food
but the ingrediants in the kiosks are OK, if you have a woman with real kitchen skills
and not just "shake and bake"

by changing location
and being in an environment that has access to local women
and doing ANYTHING that puts you in the public eye

the war will "SQUEEZE" the women in yur direction

life...is like a piece of wood
you look at the piece of wood
and you see it has "a grain"
always cut WITH the grain and NEVER against it

[Patagonie]

To make every things clear.   
I have been totally faithful to my ex wife from when we got engaged until she left the home during the divorce.   
           
But few years before meeting my (ex) wife, one time in my life I was also managing two girlfriends and two mistresses all of them at the same time. Happened that one of the two girlfriends learnt about the other one but that didn't bother about her at all.
I remember one very funny time. It was winter time, I slept at her home and arrived at the office I suddenly realized that I didn't have my phone. Which I had forgotten under her bed.
I was worrying because at this time my phone was not protected by finger scanner. 
So back home I decided to pay her a little visit, but a visit like "I was around by chance". 
I got ready to run, it was winter and it was snowing. 
So I was running in the city and then, due to the snow I started to notice that a whole highway was blocked with hundreds cars. I started to run in the snow among cars because it was shorting my way to her. 
That looked unreal, I still keep vivid memory of this.I rang the bell, she was here and we had a tea, and while she was in the kitchen or in the toilets I retrieved my phone whowas still under the bed. 
     
Don't make the drowsy bear awake.

[Patagonie]

Two days ago I have received a message of lady of Thailand explaining that she wants Tuesday to "manage" sozdatthe documents.   
It could mean different stuffs, like giving, finishing, or opening the online request for the visa.   
I need to ask her what does she exactly means.   
I closed my phone and didn't answer her at all. 
Today this morning I got another one that I didn't open at all but could read the beginning, usual formula like good morning, how do you feel...   
How do I feel? Like this 
Didn't answer and will not open before tomorrow.