Four Year Wonders Got Married: Ochka and ML

[olgac]

Yes You are spot on. Even she herself says she dresses as a teenager.
And she did have exactly this kind of boyfriend. A programmer from Germany. He came to US and I saw him cute tall guy not extremely fit but not overweight. An avid gamer 😁
But there was no future as he couldn’t move to US since work visas nowdays are i possible to get. So she would have needed to wait for her citizenship to brung him. That’s 3.5 yeas.
Also he didnt want a stay at home wife and didn’t want to solve all her problems when she moved to US. Not a traditional guy. But he did spend 1000s on her buying her tickets, furnitue a TV etc.

[olgac]

"Your legs look much longer and your buttocks stick out LOL"

function follows form
it's supposed to do that

accentuates gluteal and leg muscles
a tightly built FSU woman
dressed like this can stop traffic in the USA

my wife is VERY useful to me when I shop in electronics stores especially when she's wearing a low-cut top

takes forever for me to get service
my wife just walks up to the front of the line, like it's her right
and everyone makes way for her
everyone just stares at her with their mouths hanging open, looking her up and down
while she buys what I need
and we leave

saves me a good 10 minutes, each time
my wife will never get a traffic ticket, for the same reason, unless it's a female cop

That is amazing, Krimster 😊 lucky man !

[olgac]

BTW the jeans I found very unflattering and told her so
The other 2 women are in their 50s!

[Trenchcoat]

Well the task I wouldn't have thought would be too difficult for her Olga if that is the case, she just needs to aim for the sort of man described. I would have thought any IT department would be full of those sorts of guys and often a fair few of them single. If not enough choice in Reno then possibly more choice in Silicon Valley. She might try getting a guy over from there and see if he would be happy living in Reno. After any babies are born if they do wished they could move to Silicon Valley again as he would be the only one working as she apparently would no longer wished to..

I think if you found the jeans unflattering as a woman then probably most men would. I think I know the type kind of makes a woman's legs look really chunky in a nit good way. Potentially the guy might think she is a dyke or something if she doesn't seem to want to wear stuff that appeals to men as in going so far as to be stuff that they think she may not be straight.

Ah yes I see the pic now I've logged on, that's about what I was thinking.

[olgac]

Yes I just posted a photo of these jeans above

She is not tied to Reno! She is trying to date remotely and move to where the guy is.
The problem with Silicon Valley is that it's SUPER expensive! I mean an average small 3 bedroom house is about 2 mil!
So unless a man is not just a developer but a developer for Google, Meta, Uber, Apple, AirBnB, Reddit, Netflix, Amazon or some other cool hard to get into companies, and makes at least 400K a year, he also won't be able to afford to be a sole provider who owns a house in Bay Area!
Men who are developers at FAANG (high paying companies) can find gorgeous younger women no matter how geeky or awkward they are because they earn 400K+

She was talking to a guy who is a developer at Apple (my former employer ) but the guy didn't like the fact she is not programming I guess
he wanted his equal as a wife!
She is now talking to a Belorussian guy who works at Amazon so maybe they will meet soon.

I think the ideal situation is for her to live in a big city but with lower cost of living than Seattle, Boston, New York, LA, or Silicon Valley. We are investigating different options. Me and her are going for a trip to Chicago in Dec to see how it is. Chicago is about same cost of living as Reno and her current employer has an office there. We will see

[olgac]

Ah yes I see the pic now I've logged on, that's about what I was thinking.

Yes too funny!
I mean amazing how a skinny girl can look overweight in these!
I cropped the photo because the rest of the image looked pretty bad as well, and she really looked worse than
women in their 50s who were dressed up in a feminine way!
I mean my daughter wears jeans mostly but not THAT kind of jeans!
And she is 20! And no she doesn't have problems attracting young guys at her university esp being in COmputer Science!

Lena agreed that she looks bad on this photo, bigger than women in their 50s, but she said those jeans are very
comfortable and she only wants to wear comfortable clothes. Well my jeans I am wearing on the photos I posted
are ALSO comfortable, they are not tight or restricting at all! just not baggy!

[Trenchcoat]

Yes too funny!
I mean amazing how a skinny girl can look overweight in these!
I cropped the photo because the rest of the image looked pretty bad as well, and she really looked worse than
women in their 50s who were dressed up in a feminine way!
I mean my daughter wears jeans mostly but not THAT kind of jeans!
And she is 20! And no she doesn't have problems attracting young guys at her university esp being in COmputer Science!

Lena agreed that she looks bad on this photo, bigger than women in their 50s, but she said those jeans are very
comfortable and she only wants to wear comfortable clothes. Well my jeans I am wearing on the photos I posted
are ALSO comfortable, they are not tight or restricting at all! just not baggy!

In my view:

Comfortable = Sloppy

I just see it as an excuse for dressing often too sloppy. The stuff you are wearing is fine Olga but some people take if too far and too often.

I don't really know how the conclusion is reached of jeans being comfortable they were originally designed for workman's wear to deal with rough work and working conditions. I mean they are ok and I don't have anything against them, I have a pair of jeans myself but prefer to wear Chinos these days they just look a bit more refined In think.

For women I don't really see that dresses and skirts are particularly uncomfortable, the way I see if they are easy to throw over or around the self and job done. Tights or stuff can be worn underneath in cold weather. My impression is that smart menswear is generally more uncomfortable. A shirt for example is often stuffed into trousers which isn't necessarily all that comfortable and if course often is done up so fiddly and timed consuming. I don't mind wearing shirts so much but compared to dresses & skirts I would guess it's more of a chore. Of course wearing a shirt open and loose untucked is an option I guess but I would assume women probably don't dig the look so much.