Howdy All

[Grumpy]

Hello everybody I'm a longtime lurker of this forum (and many other similar ones, too many of which no longer exist  ). Hopefully I will be able to contribute something useful from time to time.

I first got interested in fsu women quite by accident. I was divorced in 2000 and joined a couple of dating sites. Soon I started getting letters from women in Russia. I ignored them for quite a while, as I was only looking for local women. After dating locally a long time, I checked out a few of the profiles from the foreign women who writing me. I was impressed favorably.
   

[2tallbill]

Welcome to the forum!

[mhr7]

Welcome Grumpy!

[msmob]

Welcome..

Is your nick self depreciation or others' opinion?

It is nearly 20 years since you got divorced and found out about FSU W..

You do not seem to be rushing things ))

[Grumpy]

Thank you Bill, mhr, and Moby.  I'm definitely depreciating.
Is there a need to hurry, I don't think eastern Europe will run out of women any time soon. 

[Gator]

    GRUMPY!

19 years unmarried.  That would make you a confirmed bachelor. 

Be aware, not having remarried for 19 years will be questioned by RW.  They may even have a guideline that the long time means something is wrong with you.   

What are your long term romantic objectives?

[Grumpy]

Thank you Gator.  I sometimes get distracted by local women. I also seem to have a magnetic attraction to locomotives so my long term plans involve dodging train wrecks. 

[Gator]

Thank you Gator.  I sometimes get distracted by local women. I also seem to have a magnetic attraction to locomotives so my long term plans involve dodging train wrecks. 

I interpret that as having lived together with various women over those 19 years.   

Two of my local relationships crashed hard without ever having reached the live-together stage.  Whew!!!!!! 

[2tallbill]

I also seem to have a magnetic attraction to locomotives so
my long term plans involve dodging train wrecks. 

NOTICE TO NEWBIES: Bill is dispensing wisdom print out these posts
and tape them to your bathroom mirror. 


I know a few guys who do that, they take broken women and then
try to fix them. For the most part broken women are unfixable. Maybe
with long term therapy or religious conversion or medication they can
become somewhat normal. 

However, with millions of NON broken FSUW that don't have chemically
enhanced psychotropic medications in their brains there is no reason to run
around trying to fix up a broken girl especially since it fails a thousand times
more often than it works out. 

Broken Girl?  DUMP HER!!
Desperate Girl? DUMP HER!!
Girl who lies? DUMP HER!!
Girl with character defects? DUMP HER!!
Girl who isn't serious DUMP HER!!
Girl who is so-so DUMP HER!!

[warning metaphor mixing ahead]

The purpose of this forum is to find a Good Girl who is a good match
and to live happily ever after. Broken, desperate, bad character, 
lying girls, not serious girls etc are the antimatter to this goal
and need to be jettisoned into space and never be allowed to
come into contact with the warp drive!!

If you allow broken, not serious, desperate, liars, so-so or lack
of character girls in your orbit, you will still be single (or dead)
in 2040

The options are
1. Single and lonely or dead in 2040 or
2. Happiness and bliss

Luckily, you get to chose.


Udachi !!


Bill

[2tallbill]

NOTICE TO NEWBIES: Bill is dispensing wisdom print out these posts
and tape them to your bathroom mirror. 

Girl who is so-so DUMP HER!!
Udachi !!

Bill

What is a so-so girl?

A so-so girl is a girl you are sorta into or a girl who is just
ok. EVERY girl wants a man who is totally into her and everyone
is happier if they are.

Therefore if you are only so-so on a girl then move on and let that
girl find a guy who is crazy in love with her and then you can find
the girl for you.

ONLY narcissists keep so-so girls hanging around. If she isn't your
dream then let her go be somebody else's dream.
 
Udachi!

Bill

[Grumpy]

The options are
1. Single and lonely or dead in 2040 or
2. Happiness and bliss

In 2040 I'll either be pushing up dandelions or flirting with the nurses in the senior citizens home.

[2tallbill]

The options are
1. Single and lonely or dead in 2040 or
2. Happiness and bliss

In 2040 I'll either be pushing up dandelions or flirting with the nurses in the senior citizens home.

You don't think that happiness and bliss is in the cards?

I might have been a little over dramatic. It took me 9 years to find my Angel Eyes.
It would have taken much longer if I didn't start dumping girls who weren't the
future Mrs 2tallbill.

[Grumpy]

You don't think that happiness and bliss is in the cards?

happiness= tall, slender, attractive
bliss= a fantastic baker (because I like yummy chocolate cakes and fresh apple pies)

generally mutually exclusive traits   

[msmob]

It took me 9 years to find my Angel Eyes.
It would have taken much longer if I didn't start dumping girls who weren't the
future Mrs 2tallbill.

Or they weren't interested ( enough ) in you ... 

 Rejection happened to me, too ...and here we are . ..

[ML]

Or they weren't interested ( enough ) in you ... 

 Rejection happened to me, too ...and here we are . ..

One gal told me, in an email after I was back home, "I just don't have the 'big feeling' for you."

And she was one that I spent a lot of time with having much fun for both of us (she wasn't faking) and some of best sex ever for both of us (she wasn't faking).

She did say she would be happy to spend any time with me for fun and sex,  if I came back to her city.

But OMG did she think that I would just allow my body to be used like that !!!

[LAman]

One gal told me, in an email after I was back home, "I just don't have the 'big feeling' for you."

And she was one that I spent a lot of time with having much fun for both of us (she wasn't faking) and some of best sex ever for both of us (she wasn't faking).

She did say she would be happy to spend any time with me for fun and sex,  if I came back to her city.

But OMG did she think that I would just allow my body to be used like that !!!

You could have been Tom, Dick or Harry...or even ML. She was just using you for her desires.

[2tallbill]

Or they weren't interested ( enough ) in you ... 

 Rejection happened to me, too ...and here we are . ..

I've rejected dozens in person and hundreds online, but there were
plenty that had the bad taste of rejecting my handsome and charming
self.

I assume it's because they were afraid of their sisters and girl friends
constantly throwing themselves at me. Surely it couldn't be anything
else

[msmob]

I've rejected dozens in person and hundreds online, but there were
plenty that had the bad taste of rejecting my handsome and charming
self.

I assume it's because they were afraid of their sisters and girl friends
constantly throwing themselves at me. Surely it couldn't be anything
else

BRILLIANT !